It's hard to imagine that your thoughts can create your reality, what you see and how you feel on a daily basis. Let me give you an example of what I'm talking about. Everyone that will reads this article has had an experience of someone become upset with them, at least once during your lifetime. Everyone will react to these situations in different ways.
The most common reaction to this situation will be fear-based. You will get upset with them or with yourself. This could lead to frustration and uncomfortable feelings, the next time you interact with them. Your thoughts have created your reality. They become upset with you, you become frustrated and this feeling lasts until your thoughts change.
Let's say that someone got mad at you because you wouldn't loan them $25. They needed to put gas in their car in order for them to make it to work the rest of the week. They were going to get paid on Friday but it was only Wednesday and they were out of money. You tell them no, because they can't manage their money correctly. You don't have a problem managing your money but every time they're short of money, they treat you like their personal credit line, and you're tired of it.
You get into a shouting match and soon both of you are upset and frustrated. Each one of your thoughts are different. One you just wants $25 to solve a temporary problem (you need gas to get to work) the other person is tired of loaning you money on a regular basis and is frustrated with your continuing requests for money, even though they have repeatedly told you, that you need to do a better job managing your money.
Each one of your realities is different. Each one of you has a perception of the other and these have formed over the years by our thoughts. If you focus on the illusion that someone can't manage their money properly, this will become a reality eventually. Every time you see this person buy a soda, go out to eat or buy something frivolous, you will become upset and frustrated. The closer these people are to you, the more frustrated you can become.
If we could change our thinking, we can change our reality and eventually this would lead to better feelings about life and other people. Change your thoughts about things and soon the things around you will change.
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